How To Cure Anxieties When It Comes To Getting Women
By Mark Lambert
Are you so shy and reserved when it comes to getting women that you don’t dare to make a move? Learn how to overcome shyness and build self-confidence.
Do you know the guys that always take the lead? The ones that when they have an idea, they simply pursue their idea even though there may be many obstacles or uncertainties in their way? The guys that can walk up to any girl and don’t care at all if they get rejected once in a while?
I am proud to call myself one of them, but it has taken me a long time to develop myself to become one of these guys, pursuing one’s dreams, and in the next few lines I want to show you how you will also become one of these guys, always doing what you are up for – and building your self-confidence when it comes to getting women.
Every human can change…if he really wants it!
I hear many people complaining about the world and about issues, but when it comes to taking responsibility for their own life and when it’s time for change, these people don’t do anything at all, but rather try to be okay with their lives the way they are now.
I have noticed two problems hardwired in human nature, which you MUST eliminate in order to become a mature man – a man with healthy confidence.
Problem #1: The Wrong Input
People take decisions based on the ideas of others. They do what others tell them and would rather listen to someone else’s opinion than pursuing what their mind and heart tells them is good for them.
The reason why people prefer to follow someone else’s lead rather than taking over is that they despise responsibility. They put the responsibility of their own life into the hands of others, and prefer to go in directions others show them rather than pursuing what gives them real pleasure.
Problem #2: Not Taking Any Action
People cloister themselves away from change. They are convinced that people are the way they are and that they CANNOT change.
I have seen many people who were able to change, and I am just one of them.
These problems fascinate me as MOST humans are pursuing ways in life which are NOT their preferred choice. They would rather pursue the CERTAIN UNHAPPINESS than the UNCERTAIN HAPPINESS.
The reason for their reservation is a lack of self-confidence, self-awareness and self-esteem, which leads them to being susceptible and hence they do what others tell them rather than pursuing their own way in life.
It doesn’t have to be like that, and here’s the deal…
If you feel that the way you are and what you are doing doesn’t feel right, then there is no risk at all in changing.
Change is part of life and it’s necessary in order to develop and improve.
Don’t be afraid of the uncertain, because the uncertain will be your friend once you know the direction in which you want to change. Don’t try to live by a perfectly designed plan, as ‘life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.’ (John Lennon)
There is just one thing you need in order to change and that is accepting responsibility for your own life.
Commit yourself to life and accept the responsibility.
Once you have done that, with every day that goes by you will unleash your potential and you will strengthen your way, and now comes the best part of that…
Having a way in life and pursuing the things that make you happy is the most effective way to be successful with women.
It’s not your techniques, pick-up lines or seduction approaches that make you interesting for a woman, it’s the person behind all that. And if you have developed yourself into a mature man, every woman will want to know who you are and they will like it.
You need to learn to unleash your personality to get access to your potential and use it when it comes to dealing with women. So are you ready to take responsibility for your life and start taking action now?
Then take action and make a big change in your life with women. Learn to get this area handled once and for all.
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